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Fake it till you make it



“Fake it till you make it” is a very common catchphrase.

If you don't feel confident, pretend you are until you gain the experience or the confidence that is for real. 
Even Therapist, use it all the time for patients suffering from depression. Thought it feels like artificial and forced but it will become more natural until you are happier and healthier.


Let’s get real, life is hard. We all struggle for something in our life with different circumstances and face loneliness, the bitterness, poor health and the pain. But life does not end at some point we all have to put effort to achieve our goals, before that you should focus on some points







  • Know what you can fake.
First of all know what you can fake and what not. Faking is for you to build self-esteem so that you can get to know what you can achieve. 

  • Examine your motivation
Nothing is too hard to get it, so self-motivation is very important as only you know yourself more than anyone. Be positive to yourself as you know you are doing it for only you and motive yourself.







  • Build your case 

Wherever you are lacking you know so build up yourself from that point and move, if you are lacking confidence make your fear your strength and pretend you are very confident and slowly you will come of that artificial world and when you come out you will be real, confident and happy.

  • Develop self-worth 
You have to develop your worth in your eyes first, it is an important aspect of our emotional well-being high self-esteem means we love and accept ourselves the way we are, and generally feel satisfied most of the time.










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